I’ve had close and passionate relationships, and I’ve had such that have made me devote all my time and energy to make it work.
But, none of the people I’ve been with hasn’t made me feel intimate enough to feel completely comfortable in their presence. Somehow, I’ve always found it difficult to be completely real in front of them and completely trust them.
Do you feel the same way? Have you also had difficulties being completely intimate with your partner? Even in long lasting relationships, this can happen pretty often and it’s nothing new or weird.
People find it difficult to be completely real in front of their partner and don’t do things in front of them that they find comfortable doing alone. Like farting.
Farting is one of the things people avoid doing in front of their partners. The reason for this is really simple – humans don’t like doing unpleasant things in front of people they like.
Instead, they try to impress them. Indeed, humans would rather be fake to impress, instead of risk looking silly in front of their partner.
Leah Decesare, author of “Naked Parenting”, talks in favor of being pleasant doing “unpleasant things” in front of your partner.
Her findings say that people are actually more likely to have a long relationship when they’re comfortable with each other, which includes farting in front of each other.
Being comfortable enough to fart in front of your partner means having complete trust and being sincere, which are crucial for a relationship. Farting in front of your partner shows that you are close and intimate. That you’re not afraid to show your real self.
Just as you laugh, cry and eat in front of them, it should be normal to fart in front of them.
