The stars have some good advice to help you get your man.
Sometimes we all can use a little help when it comes to love. No matter how hot and amazing you are, you may feel as if you need a little assistance when it comes to capturing the heart of the man you want.
There are hundreds of books on the subject and everybody has their own theories about what you need to do. And there’s nothing wrong with getting some help when you need it.
If you follow astrology, you know that individuals born under each zodiac sign have certain shared characteristic and behave in similar ways. The stars can help you use that knowledge to your own benefit. It’s like insider trading without breaking the law.
Aries (March 21 — April 19)
With an Aries, you don’t want to put all your cards on the table. You’re going to need to be covert. Aries likes a challenge and they love the chase, so be prepared to give them one. They like smart women and will appreciate any clever banter between you. Don’t rush him to commit or it will derail everything and he’ll never commit. Keep it cool, girl, and you’ll get what you want eventually.
Taurus (April 20 — May 20)
Taurus men are ruled by the planet Venus so they love good food, beauty, and anything that feeds the senses. Taurus individuals also like money. You’re going to have to be on point with everything from your hair to the shoes you wear. Be sure to compliment them on their taste.
Although it may seem a little old school, the best way to a Taurus’s heart is to feed them delicious food, surround them with beauty, and have your finances in order. They don’t want to be your sugar daddy, but they’ll want to enjoy the finer things in life with you.
Gemini (May 21 — June 20)
Because of the two-sided nature of the Gemini man’s personality, they can be tricky. Geminis are notorious ghosters — one minute they’re giving you a safe space to open your heart and the next they’re gone. Begin with being friends and slowly let the relationship grow. There will probably be some challenges and bumps in the road but stick with your Gemini.
Geminis hate being bored, so throw in a lot of spontaneity into your relationship. The more you mix things up, the more likely the Gemini man will fall in love. However, as spontaneous you are, make sure the Gemini man knows that you’re dependable.
Here’s a secret tip: Geminis hate being stuck in a rut, so if you find your Gemini stuck in a rut at work, school or in a relationship, and you help them get out of it, he’ll see you in a different light that can help trigger love.
Cancer (June 21 — July 22)
Once you fall for a Cancer man, you’ll probably love them forever; the trick is getting them to fall in love with you. Cancer men feel things very deeply and when it’s love that they’re feeling they do so with their whole heart. You don’t want to scare a Cancer man off, so give him the opportunity to set the pace of your relationship.
Also, they don’t respond well to emotional games, so be honest without being too aggressive. You should have your own interests. And since Cancer men love to learn, he’ll probably find you fascinating. If you want a Cancer man to fall in love with you, be honest, committed and spontaneous. Prove to him that there’s no place you’d rather be than by his side and that he can trust you not to break his heart.
Leo (July 23- August 22)
Leos are often surrounded by friends, so you better be able to share his attention. Leo men love to have an attractive woman at their side, but don’t overdo it so you reach Diva status. Leos want someone who supports them, not competes with them for the limelight.
Be strong, self-confident and able to hold your own in a conversation. Be interested in what your Leo man has to say, but have your own opinions. The main thing with Leos is that you have to stroke their egos. Leos are very affectionate and like a lot of physical contact, so be sure to show how much you care through touch. A Leo in love is romantic, sensitive, sincere and an absolute catch.
Virgo (August 23- September 22)
Virgo men are essentially perfectionists, so while you don’t have to be perfect, you do need to be able to present yourself as someone who has it together. Virgo men fall for independent, wise women who can make decisions for themselves, who are intuitive, assertive, and a hard worker. Virgo men don’t like fakes or women who get out-of-control drunk.
To get a Virgo man to fall in love with you, you need to be there for him emotionally and be someone he can (on the rare occasion) share his feelings with. Make him feel appreciated and special, as Virgos can be lacking in self-esteem. If a Virgo man finds a deep, meaningful connection with you, you’ll have his everlasting love.
Libra (September 23 — October 22)
If you want to capture a Libra’s heart, you’re going to have to think like a Libra. Here’s the thing: Libras are desperate to be loved, so compliments are more than appreciated. Let them know what’s amazing about them and keep letting them know. They aren’t entirely convinced that you’ll be around long term, so every time you flatter him, it will make him feel more secure.
Libras love love, so they want to be in love and have probably been hurt by being a bit of a doormat. Make sure your Libra knows that you think of them as an equal and that it’s OK if they sometimes take the lead. Libras can be indecisive, so be sure to show a lot of patience and don’t try to force them to make a decision.
Lastly, while it may not seem like it, it’s a good idea to give Libra some space. It will help the relationship if both of you have some independence.
Scorpio (October 23 — November 21)
Scorpio men are extremely sexual and they need a woman who can match their ravenous sexual appetites, so if you’re slightly self-conscious when it comes to sex, you need to let go of all your inhibitions. You’ll be amazed how great the sex is when you indulge in your sexual desires.
Scorpio men really understand the emotions of the women they’re with and they’ll do anything to help them feel better. Scorpio men understand emotions so well because they have a tendency to feel them very deeply themselves. In fact, if you meet a Scorpio man after he’s recently had his heart broken, it may take a long time before he’s willing to trust someone again, so you’re going to have to work extra hard to show him that you not only appreciate what he has to offer but that you’re worthy of it.
Do not play games with his heart, because not only will he not love you, he may seek revenge — and a Scorpio bent on revenge is a very scary thing.
Sagittarius (November 22 — December 21)
Sagittarius men are natural born lady-magnets. It’s not that they’re players and/or womanizers, they’re just really good socially, and when they talk to someone, they make that person feel amazing. So if you want one to fall in love with you, you’re going to have to stand out in some way.
You’re going to have to not only look great, but you’re going to have present your A-game. You can’t just be funny and smart, you need to be hilarious and highly intelligent. He could have anyone, so you’ve got to be the best of the best. Pretend you’re applying for Harvard, and then mentally switch it to getting a Sagittarius to falling in love with you. OK, got that?
Here’s where I may lose you: don’t have sex with him on the first date. I know, I know, we’re all empowered women who aren’t afraid to get our sexual needs met, but the thing is, you have to make a Sagittarius man work for it or it won’t mean as much. It’s no problem for him to get sex, the challenge is to get him to fully give his heart to someone.
Capricorn (December 22 — January 19)
Capricorn men love being in control and consider everything carefully, so they have a tendency to keep their feelings to themselves until they’ve had enough time to figure out if their feelings are true. Don’t give up prematurely if you think your Capricorn man isn’t falling for you; he might be totally smitten but too defensive to show it.
Family is extremely important to a Capricorn man so make sure to spend time getting to know his family. Capricorn men are strong, serious, and sometimes shy. They’re not always great at social situations, so if you help him break the ice with strangers and be his guide at social events, you’ll become invaluable to him.
When dating, let him make most of the arrangements because that will help them feel secure. Share his sense of humor and appreciate his jokes while telling some of your own to win his heart. Capricorn men don’t like women who don’t keep their promises or flake on dates, so show him that you’re serious about being with him.
In the end, it’s the little things, like knowing what kind of Chinese take-out he likes or sending him a sweet text that will truly capture his heart.
Aquarius (January 20 — February 18)
As far as getting someone to fall in love with you, an Aquarius may be the most challenging of the all the signs. They have a tendency to be commitment-phobic because they want to be free and explore all possibilities and people. That’s not to say it’s impossible, just not easy.
Aquarian men are unconventional and unorthodox, so you need to be a unique person as well. Aquarius men love to spend time engaging in smart conversation, so if you give great talk that will be a definite plus. These guys are driven by creativity, so if you have the same creative gifts, that could be what will draw him to you.
If you’re a musician or an actress or a singer, make sure he witnesses your talent. You’re going to start out as a trustworthy friend first, someone that he can confide in and discuss absolutely everything with. Over time, as your Aquarius sees you for the truly special person you are, he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
Pisces (February 19 — March 20)
Pisces men can be moody, so you’ve got to be OK with their emotions and know when to give them space. They’re very creative and love art, so hopefully if you’re not an artist yourself, you can appreciate it. They love to flirt and love when a woman flirts back. They actually love anything that has to do with romance, so show him that you care with romantic dinners and suggestive (but not too raunchy) texts.
Pisces men can be secretive, so don’t push him to reveal his secrets. Instead, give him time and he’ll eventually share them with you. A Pisces man works hard and plays hard, and needs a woman who has her own goals and ambitions. Be confident and proud of your success, as real Pisces men don’t respond to superficial women.
If you respect his alone time and make the time you’re together fantastic, he’ll have no other choice but to fall in love with you.
