A woman had to endure major challenges after her husband walked out on her when she was 7 months pregnant.
She is now seeking help from an online forum as to how to deal with the fact that, four years later, he is trying to re-enter her life.
According to her story, she is now a single mother and has two sons, aged 5 and 4. She was married to their father for three years before he walked out.
He completely disappeared and even the divorce process was very difficult seeing as she could not find him to sign the papers.
For four years, no one knew where he was. He never visited or called or even paid child support.
The woman is in a state of confusion as her estranged husband has started calling again, wanting to meet his kids. He is even demanding a joint custody, saying he wants to be their father again.
Now here is her dilemma. She is unsure if she should encourage this as she does not want to keep her boys from having a relationship with their father. But she is very sceptical about his motives and if he should be trusted.
What advice do you have for this woman?