Being physically intimate with another individual is an important aspect of the human experience. It provides excitement, it helps us connect on another level, and can enrich us in various ways. The main reason for being physically intimate with another individual according to society is to reproduce. But with the world changing, and the human race evolving, this need goes beyond reproduction.
Granted being physically intimate with our spouse/partner is important for maintaining our mental and emotional wellbeing and a deeper connection with our spouse/partner. But what happens when this activity turns into something more deviant?
It can manifest in several different ways. For many it can progress into an unhealthy relationship with pornography, cause them to cheat on their spouse/partner and can lead to perverted offences against others. To prevent/treat this, you must be able to identify signs that your partner may be a Sex Addict. Read on to see the most common telltale signs.
They Lie About the Littlest Things: This is one of the most telltale signs that a person is a sex addict. They become a prolific liar in order to maintain their double life.
In most cases when these lies are uncovered, they won’t make much sense to you. More often than not, these small lies are used to cover up an even deeper secret.
Known Cheater: Much like a drug addict cannot resist drugs, it’s almost impossible for a sex addict to resist an intimate encounter – even when they have a reason to do so.
Because of this, many sex addicts have engaged in infidelity. There is usually a pattern through their dating history that can be identified.
Afraid to Be Alone: Most sex addicts fear being alone, so they always feel the need to have a partner, or at times many more.
For this reason alone, they are very rarely without a relationship. Some of the causes could come from loneliness and insecurity.
They Do Not Practice Safe Intercourse: Practicing safe intercourse is very important, especially to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Sex addicts are far less concerned about these dangers. The reason is that the heated moment is far too much for their reasoned mind to overcome.
If your spouse/partner refuses to use protection, or goes as far to complain about the thought of the idea, this should be taken as a red flag.
They Constantly Have No Money: If they are currently unemployed then it’s warranted. However, if they have a steady job that allows them to pay all their expenses with money left over, than there is a cause for concern.
Another cause for concern is when you approach them and bring it up, they cannot explain where they’re money has gone. This may be because it’s gone to fund their intimate encounters which they are deeply ashamed to admit.
Trouble Keeping Appointments: Your spouse/partner is constantly flaking or chronically late for plans/appointments because of their need for constant intimate encounters.
A prime example if someone who is addicted to pornography. They me so invested and tied up that they cancel on dinner plans with friends because they’re unable to pull themselves away.
Just because someone is a sex addict doesn’t make them a bad person. It just means that they are suffering from a disease. Read on for some helpful steps that can put your spouse/partner down the proper road to recovery.
Confide In Someone: Just like any other addiction, the first thing that needs to be done is to talk to someone. Whether it’s a close friend, family member or a professional, your spouse/partner needs to hear that they have a problem. It’s important though that the person they speak to is non-judgmental and supports their intention to get rid of this disease.
Cut Out the Triggers: Your spouse/partner needs to assess certain areas/events that cause them to act on impulse. From there it is crucial to create a plan on how to deal with people, places or things that may trigger a relapse.
Educate Yourself: Like any disease, you always want to know what the causes and who is affected by them aside from yourself. It’s equally important for your spouse/partner to familiarize themselves on how to recover from this addiction.
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